Meet Corey Peterson of New Zealand. He is 14 years old and lives in a place called Tauranga. Corey is certain that he was born in the wrong era. I am certain Corey may be right about that! This is Corey below, with his best friend Hannah.
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| Corey, in background, with best friend Hannah |
Now I have never been to New Zealand. The closest I ever got was in 1990, when I went to Tahiti, Moorea and Bora Bora to do some snorkeling. Met some friendly residents, but did not keep in touch.
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| Meant to stay in touch. Honest, I did! Somehow lost your address. |
He followed me, I followed back, and I am never really expecting much other than continual requests to read someone's Facebook page, or requests to "Like someone on Facebook" or repeated questions asking, "How would you like to have 5,000 guaranteed followers like me?". Anyone who reads my blog posts knows;
1. I am not on Facebook.
2. I will never again sign up for the site, so I cannot "Like" you on Facebook. and
3. I do not want 5,000 followers just like you, asking me if I want 5,000 more, just like them! Capice?
This one below was especially funny, and was tweeted over and over again one day;
@1paenarul: want to get 15000 twitter followers just 1 days?? visit here http://t.co/dNmQEvDO"
--http://twitter.com/1paenarul/status/228498448553504768
But when I clicked on it, I was led to this:--http://twitter.com/1paenarul/status/228498448553504768
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| Oh no! Now I won't get "15ooo followers in just 1 days"! |
I have never understood why the amount of followers one has on twitter is so important. It's not like followers have any monetary worth. My dog has a twitter account. Of course, I have to tweet for her, as her paws are so big. In fact, I asked her last night, "Do you care how many followers you have on twitter?" She just stared at me with that, "I only care how many dog treats are left in that treat jar" look. But again, I digress...
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| "Venus transit of the Sun (through filter). Only happens every 130 years or so." |
I happened to be sick in bed late one afternoon (nothing new there) in early June, and was tweeting etiquette and news stories. My big brother had just emailed me a photo he had taken through his telescope of the "Venus transit of the Sun". About the same time, a tweet came through from the New Zealand Herald reading,
Moments later, up popped this; Corey @downtonabblings
Thus our friendship was born. I tweeted back to him;
He tweeted back;
Corey
@downtonabblings @Etiquettologist yes! But I was in school so unfortunately I missed the chance to see it!
And the conversation continued;
@Etiquettologist
@downtonabblings They didn't let you students take a break to get a quick look? That is so wrong!
Then, much to my surprise, up popped Hannah into the conversation...
@Etiquettologist @iamhannah_ @downtonabblings That's odd. Why was a NZ news tweet, alerting people where they'd have best view? Is it coming from elsewhere?
So that is how this whole thing started. I had already noticed Corey from a slightly goofy profile photo he had originally. It always made me smile. He'd tweet things not really typical of a 14 year old boy, especially tweets about Downton Abbey. Corey has a major crush on Michelle Dockery, aka 'Lady Mary'. But then he'd also tweet things very typical of a 14 year old boy. One night I read a tweet; @downtonabblings Just made some mac'n cheese. Yum! I happened to be on twitter, so I tweeted to him @Etiquettologist Great comfort food!" We would 'converse' back and forth for a bit, but it never occurred to me he would be interested in etiquette.
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| Amy Poehler's take on critics of Downton Abbey's authenticity |
One night he tweeted this however, and our unusual friendship changed course and it became a teaching oppportunity for me;
Corey
I immediately retweeted and favorited the tweet responding;
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| Notes of thanks are a must in my book! |
Corey said he was interested in taking etiquette classes and wanted to know if he was too young. I said he wasn't too young, adding that I had not trained any instructors who are in New Zealand, nor had I heard of any. I offered to teach him via email, and at some point on Skype though. He happily accepted. I gave him my email address and told him to ask his mother to Google me first. I didn't want an angry parent out there thinking I was trying to... well, I don't know what. All I know is that I was repeatedly warning my kids not to become too friendly with total strangers on the internet when they were growing up. As it is, my 25 year old daughter thinks this whole this friendship is very "weird" and tried to convince me that Corey is probably "some 60 year old pervert", but I know otherwise.
He is active in various charity projects. He volunteers at "Village Radio" station, which plays nostalgic music from the 1920s to the 1980s. He is always up to something interesting it seems, when not in school or doing school work. Corey is so unique a young man, I have asked if he would like to guest blog for me about learning etiquette. He was happy I had asked, and will be blogging about teens, etiquette and other subjects in the future. Read my interview with him in my next post, on how he became such a big Downton Abbey fan.
He is active in various charity projects. He volunteers at "Village Radio" station, which plays nostalgic music from the 1920s to the 1980s. He is always up to something interesting it seems, when not in school or doing school work. Corey is so unique a young man, I have asked if he would like to guest blog for me about learning etiquette. He was happy I had asked, and will be blogging about teens, etiquette and other subjects in the future. Read my interview with him in my next post, on how he became such a big Downton Abbey fan.
